The Role of the Parent: How to Support Your Child Through the CPS HSAT Process Without Adding Pressure
As a parent in Chicago, you know the High School Admissions Test is a significant milestone for your 8th grader. Your child is undoubtedly feeling the pressure, but let's be honest: you are too. You want the best for them, and navigating this high-stakes process can be incredibly stressful. The challenge is figuring out how to help effectively without becoming a source of that stress yourself.
Your role in this journey is crucial. You are not the teacher or the drill sergeant; you are the coach, the logistics manager, and the number one supporter. Here are some practical strategies for supporting your child constructively.
Be the Logistics Manager, Not the Instructor
Your primary job is to clear the path so your child can focus on learning. Take charge of the "when" and "where" so they can manage the "what."
Manage the Calendar: Sit down with your child and map out a study schedule. Use our 3-Month HSAT Study Plan as a template. Help them block out study time on the family calendar.
Organize Resources: Ensure they have the necessary materials, whether it's a quiet workspace, a library card, or access to free online resources.
Handle the Paperwork: Take the lead on navigating the GoCPS portal, tracking official deadlines, and understanding the application requirements.
Create a Supportive Study Environment
Think about both the physical and emotional space your child needs to succeed.
Physical Space: Designate a quiet, well-lit, and organized area for studying, free from the distractions of television, phones, or younger siblings.
Emotional Space: When it's study time, respect it. Don't interrupt your child with chores or non-urgent questions. Acknowledge the effort they're putting in and protect that time as a priority.
Focus on Effort, Not Outcomes
This is the single most important psychological shift a parent can make. Praise the process, not just the results. Acing a practice test is great, but the real victory is the consistent effort it took to get there.
Avoid This: "Why didn't you get a higher score on that practice test?"
Try This: "I saw you really focused for that full hour. That's great stamina. What did you learn from taking that test?"
This approach builds resilience, reduces the fear of failure, and keeps the lines of communication open.
Your Role During Practice Tests
Your most active role in the study process is that of a "proctor" and "consultant."
When it's time for a mock test, help create realistic conditions by timing them and ensuring the room is quiet. Afterward, your job isn't to critique the score, but to help them analyze the results constructively. Reviewing their CPS HSAT Practice Tests together is a valuable bonding and learning experience. Ask questions like, "Which section felt the best?" or "What kind of problem was most confusing?" This turns a "test" into a learning tool.
Know When to Back Off and Listen
Recognize the signs of burnout. If your child is becoming irritable, withdrawn, or overly anxious about studying, it might be time for a break. Pushing through exhaustion is often counterproductive. Trust that a day or two off to recharge can be more valuable than forcing another study session. If the anxiety seems severe, it might be time to read up on strategies to conquer test anxiety.
Ultimately, your calm and steady support is the most valuable resource you can offer. By focusing on effort, creating a positive environment, and managing the logistics, you can help your child navigate this process successfully while strengthening your relationship along the way.